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Cybil

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2015-06-16 0-51-28-

Coming out advice I'm a xy/o dude, not out, no bi or gay friends, very man and masculine... But sexually, I'm gay. It's really depressing being NOT OUT and not having anyone to talk to about it. I want to come out, just free sex girls of how people - friends and family - would take it... From the outside, I'm very manly. I am not out, masculine, and into typical butch stuff... Fixing cars, football, boxing, etc. But inside, I'm gay. I'm only attracted to men. Being closeted, I cannot show that in public... From the outside, I'm very cold, sluts in conway mo and mean acting... But truly, I'm the most passionate and romantic guy I know. My guy-friends are all straight (at least I think they are). I got a few bisexual women-friends, but even to them, I don't have the balls to tell them. I've had girlfriends before, but it really just doesnt work out. Anyways, to make the story short, it's really depressing and gets me down. Anybody got any advice?
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2015-07-03 15-14-54

We've all been there. My experience was much more positive than I imagined. Honestly, x% of the people I told already knew or at least had some idea. I was shocked. I came out to my best friend first - once you've said it once, it's easier. Family is tougher. My experience was overall a good The reaction wasn't as desirable as I'd hoped at first, but over time it's getting better. The thing to keep in mind is: it's new information to the people you're telling, although it's old to you. They might need time to get used to it, to think about it, before knowing how they will feel. Don't hold their reactions against them if they aren't desirable...remember, it's the long term relationships you will form that you care about, not the heat of the moment. I found my relationships strengthened when I came out - it brought us closer. It sounds like your confident to yourself, that's a great start. I didn't have that. Start where you think you might have the easiest time, then move on. Just do what feels right to you - and see what happens. If it's like me, you'll be much happier after you've said it, regardless of the reaction/outcome. You can start to be who you really are. There are many many people out there who will love you for that, some you may not have even met yet. Good luck!
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  • rustin

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    2015-07-12 20-16-43

    been there still there good morning.....well this is really weird but Im in the same situation...but Im x I spent my life being by myself, working hard...like you I have no gay friends..Im always the third wheel it seems like, with in the past year I started dating guys with not much luck....Im in Tucson for a few weeks and I met someone that I really thought was going to work but once again another failed gay relationship...One thing I regret is not dating when I was your age, I believe there is someone out there for all of us...gay straight whatever....Ive been blessed to have had so many great freinds over the years...because of who I am I moved out at a very mature sex women age and told myself that I was going to be by myself and do it all al..well it worked for the past x yrs but now that Im doing very well, I have my own business in Colorado, but there is a major void in my heart that I want to fill, someday I will find someone to fill that void and everyone will find out but I think it will be ok, some family and friends will fall away but at this point Im tired....I wish you the best I know how hard it is, and know this that GOD loves us and that Im sure of
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  • olivier

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    2015-08-22 4-18-01-

    yeah... get over it.... OK, maybe not quite so fast, but only becasue I dont know how dependent you are on your parents and how they would react. I assume you're in college and need their support until your graduate. So maybe you need to play a little hide'n'seed for a while, for practical reasons. But..if and when that's not the case, stop wasting your life to please what you think someone else wants. At x, these are your best years socially and sexually. Are you gonna let them slip by because you're afraid someone else doesn't like how you feel? Every moment that goes by IS GONE FOREVER. Who gives a fuck what THEY want!?!? Fact is, x.x% of the world doesn't give a damn. Its only your imagination and ego that makes you think so many people give a shit about YOU. There are just a very few who will even notice, and if they are people worth worrying about, they will not turn on you because you are gay. *ANYONE* who demands you live your ~x years on the planet to suit *them* doesn't deserve your concern. What you should be looking for is that horny married find - a guy in this case - who cares very much about you, and vice versa. I GUARANTEE that once you come out of your closet you will: x. Feel x% better about yourself. x. Deeply regret having waited. x. Agree with everyone else who says the fear of coming out was stupid and living in a closet is worst thing anyone can do to themselves.
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    todoroff

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    2015-08-22 14-24-53

    just be careful.... .. once the burden of who you are is out there, your going to find it easier to date and possibly get in trouble, ie a STD.... Sexually Transmitted Disease.. they are out there, and it doesn't matter that there are horny single woman out there to take care of some, hopefully control others..
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    Kai

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    2015-09-16 19-50-01

    just remember Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear." -Ambrose copenhagen sex Redmoon Be brave and go for it.
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    frans

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    2015-10-15 17-39-30

    knock knock think of it this way... you will lose more respect from your friends and family by not being honest with yourself, friends and family. they may be less trusting in you the longer you wait, especially the ones that have already come out to you. in turn, you may even lose a friend in the long run but it's more important to realize that this is your life, your txt xxx vidos siox , and you can't live it for anyone else but you. besides, chances are, some may already know; no matter how 'straight' acting you think you are. go to free local adult chat , and listen to 'i am what i am', i'm sure you've already heard it before. but this time, really listen to it,,,and feel it. it applies to all walks of life; straight, gay & bi. good luck man...and hurry! there's a whole hocking hills swingers world waiting for you, and it's right outside your closet. ;)
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    slick

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    2015-12-04 1-46-44-

    Once you're out you'll be amazed by x) How little most people actually care x) How much better you feel Just do it.
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