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edlund

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2011-02-08 14-33-21

The shallow end of the pool Here's a question. Why is it that many gay men can see the value of antique furniture, nice cars, expensive clothes, and fine foods; yet they see no value in establishing any sort of relationship. Friendship, or otherwise. I've gotten tired of those people who need a face pic to even be able to say hello, or hold a conversation. What makes someone so special that the only person they will only grant athletic models permission to talk to them. Maybe they will look like an idiot if they are required to have a conversation that lasts beyond the words "stats", "size", or "top or bottom". Even worse are the guys that think their looks will get them whatever they want, so they try to charm other guys into doing things for them. Or, will screw their friends and family over just so they can get something out of them. Not all guys are like this. I have been very fortunate to meet quite a few good guys who are very self sufficent. They would rather do without before using anyone to get what they want. And they do not need to surround themselves with only beautiful people to make themselves feel good. Those, are the richest guys I know because they have something money can't buy: self-respect. But to the simple minded people, I can only say thing. Remember...all valuable things have usually aged over years. The older a wine is, the more it's desired. An antique will usually sell for a much higher price than a new piece of furniture. The same can be said for the people in your life. If you base all relationships, both friend and lover, on just physical features, then that relationship will fade along with their looks. Or if you use people until they have no more purpose, and then just throw them away...you will have nothing that's truely valuable to comfort you when you need it the most. Or...if what I said has gone over their pretty little head, then let me simplify it. Karma's a bitch.
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2011-02-11 5-11-04-

If thats true, I am the most valuable person in here so far today. 'Cause I know I have to be the oldest person in here, even when I lie and say I am younger! btw, Good Morning!
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2011-02-12 19-24-30

To assume makes an..... Just wondering...do you always assume you know everything, or did your crystal ball fog up this morning? Where did I say I don't think my face pic is all that good? The fact that I think conversation should not be based on looks does not indicate that I feel negatively about myself. Some of us don't feel the need to brag that we are "VGL" or post nude pictures. We are secure in all aspects of ourselves. And I have met people without a picture before. I know that many people have false photos and lie about their stats. Even a current pic may not look like the person. Remember, people always select their BEST pic for a profile. Also, do not assume that I am looking on the net for a husband. As time and technology changes, our socialization must change as well. There are more men online than at a coffeehouse. And, unfortunately, the internet is changing our verbal skills. Many people are more comfortable talking on a computer than in person. Look at all the people who spend more time texting than dialing the ph It is possible to be online without looking for sex or marriage. As for me being desperate...WTF? Why? Because posted my frustrations with society in an online forum that's commonly used for such purpose? If I was truly desperate, I wouldn't be complaining. I would be grateful there are so many young guys out there I could date for the bargain price of a meal and a drink. As for budgeting my "internet cruising time" and volunteering...tell me...On both Thanksgiving and Christmas, while I was distributing meals to home bound elderly and sick clients...where were you? Hopefully doing the same thing. I am very grateful for my time spent with charities. It allows moments that are spent with people who care about others. But since you were kind enough to give such valuable time management advice, please let me do the same. If you would reduce the time you spent judging others, you might have more time to polish that crystal ball and see more clearly. Of course, if you cut back on judging others, you would need another activity that will make you feel just as superior. Hmmm...that may take some thought.
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2011-02-18 6-28-12-

Hey, whoa, Tube actually isn't all that judgmental, and I don't think he was judging you. He was being honest and providing an honest response. You happen to disagree with hit and you provide more evidence in the above post as to why it's not quite spot-on, in your case, but based off what you originally posted, Tube's response is wholly justified and appropriate. Moreover, unfortunately, your second post makes the first somewhat disingenuous-seeming. If you're so proud of your appearance, why do you have any qualm whatsoever about someone on the Internet asking to see it? If you were as secure with "all aspects" of yourself, as your second post claims, it seems unlikely to me that you would lack for worthy companionship of whatever kind you wanted. Something is amiss here. Perhaps further info from you could clarify it, but we have to respond to what we're presented with. Tube did that, and now so have I. For my part I wish you nothing but the best, and do not wish to judge or upset you in any way with my responses. It's what I think, and you may think and do as you wish. It would be nice it that last point could go without saying, but sadly, not everybody seems to take that freedom as implicit.
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Morganne

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2011-03-05 17-48-39

Sounds like you've been scanning the personals The personals and chat rooms are the epitome of superficiality. Also, they are very goal-oriented. Guys aren't really on there "just to talk", they're on there to find a hook-up or to fantasize. That's why they demand your photo...even if they claim to be there "just for chat".
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    2012-04-21 18-41-01

    i've heard that spiel a few times before... ...and it's always from older guys that are hitting on young guys. so much for the value of antiques or fine wines. that said, the men-seeking-men personals are useful for amusement purposes only, or for enabling various forms of self-destructive behavior.
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