What are the various things people have been tied to before? Or tied someone up to?

my favorite way to tie someone I haven't tied anyone sexually yet, hoping to change that as soon as I have proper rope, but my favorite way to tie someone, is not to an object but to themselves. I love watching whoever it is squirm and writhe trying to get free. I use those spiffy knots that tighten against resistance!!

Hmmm... I've been tied to a bed... (if you've got a boxspring you didn't pay a shitload for... the boards that make up the frame on the bottom of it make great things to tie end of the rope to... just a little cut in the cover and viola!, permanent ropes at each corner). Chained to a wall. And tied to myself. Heh... that was great. he left me there... he wasn't the best knot tier, but he wasn't bad either... and he had me pretty snug... he went downstairs to smoke... the look on his face when I walked out the door onto the porch was fucking PRICELESS!!!

I wanna learn how to tie those knots and the rope I have found that works the best for me at least is some stuff I found at Home Depot... I think its like 3/8 inch super soft 3 strand polyester rope. Ive learned it isnt too hard on the skin, it ties and unties very easily, and looks nice

that works ti is much like rock climbing rope just cheeper

so dynamic? question on natural rope this guy who is tying me up soon asked if I was allergic to grass? because he uses natural ropes? I get hay fever soemtimes but otherwise how would I know if I were allergic to grass? Is this really an issue do you think?

if It was rough must have been Hemp rope.... right that stuff... i it Wisconsin wonder weed make the best rope for some applications but rope to skin in not the best application there

so you are telling me he's using itchy rope on purpose? this does not sound good...

please chalk it up to either stupidity of he was frugal...

no no, this hasn't happened yet

Usually it's a hook in the ceiling... a suspension rig, a St. Andrews Cross, spanking bench, and once to a bondage bed...but I have been tied to a futon as well..; ) I would love to be tied up somewhere outside..a tree, park bench...a jungle gym?

omg I am obsessed with the playground by our house... the slide... tire swing... what is a bondage bed? don't you get tired standing up by a st andrews cross?

okay and (giggling) who has a hook in their ceiling? all the time its there?

my brother and his wife do for their sex swing... it's a permanent eyehook in the ceiling... it's actually pretty unobtrusive, I mean... it's in their bedroom... and how often does someone stare at your ceilings anyway, lol

Hang a plant!! ; )

looks up... well not in this room There are rafters in the back room that work great though...

if you're referring to the sex swing thing... I think they've actually got hooks up there... I dunno, it's been ages since I've been to their house... years, actually... we aren't on speaking terms anymore, so... but if memory serves, I think it was two... and of course, no doubt they're screwed into the rafters... cause neither of them are... petite.

I do not want to get in to the engineering here.....

yea hanging from a hook is not high on the list I saw a lady swinging around in a dungeon and all I could think was if something breaks, she's airborne and totally tied up and unable to break her own fall... shudders

the other night I saw a woman tied from a hook in full bondage hanging from the ceiling. i don't know what its ed. its seemed more like acrobatics then sexual.

I know quite a few people who do! But, the hook I'm referring to is at the club! And nope, I don't get tired of standing..I actually prefer to stand.

oh, do you worry about falling? like constantly? or do you forget it? is it a turn on to be suspended... I realize you weren't necessarily talking about suspending but I'm still trying to understand this Why do you like standing?

Nope I don't worry about falling... it's out of my hands, the Top is responsible for keeping me in the air, and yes it's sexual for me, because for one, I have a rope fetish, and for another, giving someone that power gets me off! Plus, like I've said before, I have a sexually charged relationship with the Top who suspends me..so yeah...YUM! I like standing because I can stick out my bum for more attention...I like the feel of him behind me, presseing me into the rack, or his knee between my thighs..his mouth on my nech, hand in the hair...I dunno..I feel more accessible standing up too..he can reach my nipples, my pussy..my face..mmm..yeah.

you make this letting go thing sound so easy :-) even listening to that makes me want to hang onto something

Well..it comes to trusting your instincts, and having a lot of confidence in the persons ability to keep you safe..and that comes from references, getting to know the person and watching them do what it is they do and judging for yourself! If you come to the Asylum this weekend I'm sure you'll see me get suspended! ; )

not sure I'm allowed on my own or i would do you know about whether its likely I'd be allergic to a rope if its natural? why would a guy only use natural rope? he was doing the suspension thing at the conservatory and is going to do this bondage thing (very soon) and I'm getting kind of stressed about this question of the rope... have you ever had a reaction to rope before? Do you see how OCD I am...? this is going to bug me for the next x hours

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