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vitullo

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2011-02-08 3-36-19-

Love some feedback Ok, here is my dilemma: I am a transgendered woman; not a flaming anything, ok! I identify as a lesbian. I am pretty tall. On a good day I could be considered a 'handsome' woman, partially because I am middle aged. I have a solid circle of women friends. I am not co-dependent, into drugs, fantasies or (definitely not) men. So here is the question. How does someone in my situation meet a nice companionable woman who doesn't automatiy assume that I am bringing a bunch of 'guy stuff' along? I am just me, don't know any other way to be, not gonna change and am not looking to be initiated or rescued. And I already have a toaster. Are there any lesbians out there who don't cringe at the thought of a transwoman as a potential mate/companion/partner?
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brys

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2011-02-10 9-06-40-

Sounds like you're doing everything right but it can't hurt to get your friends a little involved in your search, too :-) Sometimes we all have to broadcast our sterling qualities a bit.
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  • Kyle

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    2011-02-10 12-26-29

    I would absolutely date a transwoman.
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    augenstein

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    2011-02-12 1-53-48-

    what makes you think that? that they're assuming that you are "bringing a bunch of 'guy stuff' along?" have women said this to you?
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    pompa

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    2011-02-12 19-52-43

    Well it was the first thought that poped into my head is she fully transitioned... so I can see where the confusion or questions would come in.
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    ticknor

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    2011-02-25 8-15-37-

    What? I get really confused with all this I'm still learning and I know allot of lesbians that don't understand as well... Others dislike the term "transsexual" and prefer to themselves transgender women. Definitions of transsexual: Transsexual (TS) This is a person who wants to change his or her physiological gender, and to live permanently in the new gender role. Transsexuals can be further divided into pre-operative (pre-op) and post-operative (post-op). Estimates vary on the frequency of occurrence for transsexuals, but in 10,000 is as good an estimate as any. I don't understand so yes there are allot of questions.
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    Lary

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    2011-03-04 6-52-59-

    wait what? you're not making any sense at all. i asked a direct question of Dalmax. i'd be interested in her response (but she appears to be g ) i think it's great that you're educating yourself about trans issues in general - keep reading! there's also a trans forum where i'm sure you could get suggestions and questions answered. what you're writing doesn't seem to fit in with the context of this thread.
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    2011-04-03 8-11-20-

    To Hotbuttonissue In the course of my 'evolution' (which was really more physical than anything else) I got a chance to see, first-hand the devastation that some of my 'contemporaries' managed to do to the relationship between transwomen and the lesbian community. Having a different/higher set of standards, not being a sexual pig, and wanting what I want sets me apart from most of the pack. I don't come with a sense of entitlement; rather, I want what (I think) everyone else wants. A low-turbulence, fairly drama free, low issue quotient relationship based on mutual respect. I want a relationship that is complementary, not supplementary. And in answer to your question: I'm not actually sure that I am; I am just defensive because of those who have come before me.
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    clementi

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    2011-05-11 3-29-05-

    thanks for responding i guess my feedback to your original question would be work on relaxing some of that defensiveness. things you've said in this post and in your original post have a strong whiff of internalized transphobia to me. you're "not flaming", not a "sex pig", have higher standards, are not like "most of the pack" - it sounds like you don't have much affection or respect for transwomen. saying you're looking for dates with lesbians that "don't cringe at the thought of a transwoman" reeks of low-self esteem. and what does it say about your opinion of other lesbians? i do understand your frustration with dating (or not dating.) i wish it were easier to find (a good) someone to love, believe me.
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