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Rivi

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2011-02-08 3-51-21-

Bisexuality and lesbians Do you think there is a prejudice from lesbians to bisexuals? I'm not talking about the "bi" girls who come in here married and with a boyfriend begging for a girl to join or to be the girl on the side. To me, a bisexual girl is someone who can have a true relationship with either a man or a woman. Not a girl who might sleep with a woman every now and then, but has all the comforts of a heterosexual life. Using another person to kink up your hetero marriage is not bisexual, it's just skanky. I for one, welcome my bisexual sisters. I get angry when they are compared to these sleeze buckets who come in here begging us to sleep with them, and their husbands.
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2011-02-10 9-51-03-

I used to think that bisexuals just wanted the best of both worlds, that they were indecisive. After discovering that a few of my friends are bisexual, I know now that they're human and they love other humans--no matter the sex. And I get that. I think the perceived "prejudice" exists because of those who treat sexuality as a passing fancy or an experiment. I'll quote you to conclude: "I for one, welcome my bisexual sisters. I get angry when they are compared to these sleeze buckets who come in here begging us to sleep with them, and their husbands."
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2011-02-10 14-12-56

The person, not the gender I agree with the falling for person, not gender comment. It was the inside of the person that got me, regardless of the outside. For me, it is unfortunate that the woman was the who wanted me on the side while she still had her husband, as did I still have mine, but it at least opened my eyes. I can only do a on relationship, but that's just me. For me, too much energy to juggle more than one, , work, etc.... (((cheers)))
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2011-02-12 4-13-42-

I think (As I have said before) that 'sexual tourists' and/or people who should probably ID as poly, give 'true' bisexuals a bad name. I think attraction can be fluid. I think this is separate from monogamy vs non monogamy. I think there should be more names/ categories to cover exploration and tourism over fluid attraction of people who practice monogamy.
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  • schlater

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    2011-02-13 6-44-28-

    Honestly, I think some of the people who come on here would give poly a bad name too. I've known people in and been in poly relationships and they require a lot more maturity and honesty than most of the "tourists" are capable of.
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    2011-02-26 4-10-54-

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    2011-03-02 0-28-56-

    names and categories of tourism there's the European Grand Tour (gritty exposure to life altering experiences) Round the World in 80 Days (adventure without long-lasting consequences) Journey to the Heart of the Amazon (is the outside world even real) Club Med beach party enclave (no real contact with the locals) Mir station vacation (you paid how much to live in this tin can?) Trek across the Antarctic (you will not regret it, if you live!) North Korean ESL teacher special (seemed like a good idea at the time?) Home state vacation (why go anywhere until you've explored your own back yard?) Fly-in Fishing camp (do what you came here for, and leave with your limit) Ride the Orient Express (one of your co-travellers is a double agent) Idyllic Grecian Islands tour (what's the name of that Island again? :-) Liposuction Epidermal Rejuvenation Spa (remodel the outer You) Spiritual Quest through India (discover the inner You) we could be on to something
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  • larsson

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    2011-04-06 16-57-41

    You nailed it, RS&G... Based on the majority of related postings we see here, I think what's been happening lately is a resurgence of interest in what was once known as "swinging" in the x's. things are new; their sense of privileged entitlement and disposable access via the webs. Generally speaking, I don't think there is a prejudice between lesbians and bisexuals when all parties share mutual respect for themselves and others. Despite the "open minded" attitude many espouse, what a lot of folks don't seem to understand is that bisexuality does not guarantee concurrent relationships with both genders. And so, I flag related postings along with the porn. Admittedly, sometimes I won't even stay on the 'fo if we're being swamped with it. But that's just me.
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    medici

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    2011-06-20 11-08-23

    There is a prejudice that exists but as people have said, it's mainly due to the sexual "tourists" giving bi-sexual a bad name. I've dated many a true bi women and been friends with quite a few. I've always been of the opinion that if other lesbians are too close minded to date bi women, then more for me. Although I'm referring to the true bi women, not the katy perry wannabes.
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    2011-07-23 13-14-58

    No I don’t think that most lesbians are discriminatory toward bisexuals and I sincerely apologize to any bisexual women that I may have offended here last night by likening them to poly. I lost my manners when the idiot comment came out and subsequently I lost my tiny mind then too. I am not repulsed by bisexuality but I am repulsed by poly/stupidity where the women are under the impression that lesbians would be interested in joining or discussing their married/hetero/bi/poly relationship. Bisexuality and lesbianism aren’t the same even when a bisexual woman is having sex with a woman it’s still not the same so someone is not likely to find hoards of bisexual women in places for lesbians.
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  • bakula

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    2011-09-01 13-39-56

    You know, there are actually good people in honest poly relationships. Maybe we should examine that prejudice as well. Not everyone in a poly relationship is cheating on lying and cheating. In fact, having a true poly relationship requires more honesty and communication than most monogomous relationships. I've known some great poly people. Like with bi-sexuals, there are people out there who give them a bad name, particularly married people who cheat on their spouses or want to experiment with threesomes. Also, not all poly people are bi, just as not all bi people are poly.
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    carilla

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    2011-09-22 2-05-17-

    Yes I do know that. I also know that we are all really just varying degrees of bisexuality, good people do bad things and that everyone is prejudice against something or some So that’s why I wrote that I was repulsed by the poly/stupid that go into lesbian discussion forums looking for bisexuals wanting to join them. I guess I should use misnomers label and them sexual tourists (good one!) so as to not offend those that are thoughtful minded with regard to sexuality. Now what’s with taking me to task on that, I already admitted I have a small mind and I really don’t know much about this whole issue. I admit that I really should have stayed out of it but I got irked with the idiot comment because I frequently resemble that. I hope I didn’t offend you and I totally get what you’re saying.
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  • goldwin

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    2011-11-04 11-38-59

    I don't really know that many 'true' bisexuals in real life so I don't think I'm qualified to answer the question for myself, but I do see prejudice against the bisexuals, absolutely. On the other hand, I think the overwhelming experience that I've heard about is women who do want it both ways and wonder why the lesbians aren't interested in that. I value more than anything, honesty. I also value monogamy and know that its what's best for me, a little something on the side cheapens the whole thing, in my opinion. And on a side note, I don't hate men and I'm not repulsed by the idea of being intimate with I just have zero interest in it.
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    swords

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    2011-12-25 3-04-11-

    I totally agree with you and I probably shouldn’t have used such a strong and inflammatory word like repulsed. I don’t hate men either I love em but being intimate with a man would really make me feel queer;)
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    2012-02-18 15-12-41

    I have never experienced it in my own world, but I've heard of it I guess. The people I know seem generally cool with whatever people do and whoever and however they love, as long as it's consensual and respectful. Me, I'm acted romantiy and sexually to women. I don't feel as if I'm missing out on some grand experience just because I'm not into guys. I get a little shirty at the implication that I'm somehow backward for not being bi, or pan-sexual, and open to all. (and sometimes the "it's the person, not the plumbing" statements read that way to me - a bit sanctimonious...?) But I don't tend to judge many folks for what they do if it's consensual and respectful, and doesn't harm anyone else. And if they keep it in the right forum! : )
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    2012-05-04 3-35-14-

    just a thought... the way i see it, when you fall in love... it's always with "the person." nobody is better or worse because of who they love, because it's the act of loving that mrs, right? and as far as "...not the plumbing," it's really just science. nature. the kinsey scale. onend, some people are acted to men. next, there are people who are acted to mostly men but also women. and some people are acted to both genders/sexes/whatever is appropriate here equally. then, some people are acted to chinchillas. (just checking if you're paying ntion.) some are acted to mostly women but sometimes men. and then some people are acted to only women. ... so on and so forth. i guess what i'm getting at is that *not* being acted to someone can't possibly mean anything except that you are simply not acted to them. it would be silly to think that someone who loves women were being judgemental or somehow out of whack for not wanting to be intimate with men. it's just the way people work. i think we should all be applauded for having the capacity to love, period. LON i don't think any of this is news to you, you are a wise lady. i just thought i would chime in.
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    2012-09-07 13-45-36

    hi stinker. two scenarios immediately come to mind: x) this is an attempt at baiting someone (or everyone) to disagree with you. x) you have had an experience (a very specific experience) in your life, that caused you to think this way. since i don't know you, or what is actually going on here, i can only throw my perspective out there- if for no other reason than to shake yours up a bit. my responses to thescenarios above are as follows: x)nobody is going to take this bait. maybe work on a different hobby/ way of interacting with people. x) there are no absolutes. your experience is not a rule, nor is it the norm, nor is it something that will likely happen again to you. roll with the punches, and please try to understand that by generalizing and stereotyping, you hurt yourself more than anyone else- and you cripple the progress of good in the world.
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