[Howard]

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[Henrieta]

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[kind]

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[Buford]

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[peter]

yes, do not turn it around on her don't let her feel like she has any control. by you turning the question around on her, you're basiy giving her the reigns which is something she doesn't like. don't give her choice. unless it's like... "tonight, while you're sucking my cock you can decide where my cum is going to go. down your throat or on your tits." or something like that lol. i know when guys i have been with weren't controlling enough or always ended up making me decide how things were gonna be done i never ended up staying with them because it's just such a turn off for me and i really have no interest at all in taking any kind of lead.

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[schwalbach]

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[garr]

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[delgiorno]

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